Friday, July 8, 2011
Not good enough. @ 11:53 PM
I've been studying like a really good girl. Study group with Weiteng, Sijing, Zhanhao and Xinwei the other day was very, very fruitful. Not because of Red^2 ;D
So I've been wanting to talk about this for a while now, but haven't had the chance to.
Relationships.
As Google defines it, a relationship is "An emotional and sexual association between two people".
I want to correct Google.
An emotional OR sexual association between two people
I was never the one that believes in true love. I believe in love, but perhaps a more momentary kind. Love is love, Sex is sex. They are separate.
I think that the only reason why people who are really in love have sex is to have kids and start a family. The others, it's just for the sex, not love.
If you really love someone, don't show it in terms of sex. That's dumb. Unless you're some horny ass bitch that's using 'love' as an excuse, and after fucking the guy, when he breaks up with you, you go 'I gave him everything, I should've known.' yada yada yada.
Especially when a guy is attached and fucking his girlfriend, and he cheats on her by fucking some other girl. Ouch? So if you really love a guy, don't fuck him. You'll only be hurting yourself if he ever cheats on you or breaks up with you. If you don't love the guy, then that's alright, you won't feel anything even if he cheats on you or leaves.
This is where the term, "friends with benefits", come in.
Sex is like a game of cards. Find a player, play the game, have fun, forget about it afterwards. Do you remember every game of cards you play? I don't think sex is really a big deal.
Love is the big deal here. As said, sex is a game, no love at all, so no one gets hurt.
But love? People hurt.
Love means holding hands, exchanging kisses, leaning on shoulders, lying down together(with clothes on), cooking for each other. That is love. And somehow to me, love seems like so much more of a dangerous game than sex.
You put your heart on the line.
Only family, friends, lovers, people who are close to ownself will love. Sex? You can have it with anyone.
(okay except maybe the bangla downstairs).
When someone you love leaves, you hurt.
When someone you just have sex with leaves, well, okay.. No biggie.
I know I sound like a total slut now, but that's just how I feel. Love and sex should have a very distinguished line in between. It's not like I've had sex, but this are just my views.
Plus I don't think there's anything wrong about sex. Having sex with someone doesn't make a girl a slut, or a boy a hero. Similarly, not having sex with anyone doesn't mean someone is a loser.
I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend, fucks someone else without love. But if he fucks some other girl and falls in love with her I'll kill him. LOL. If I really love my boyfriend, I won't fuck him. I'll fuck other guys but him. Because it'll be giving him a chip to hurt you.
But guys out there, please, please don't ever cheat on girls who really love you. You will regret it. Don't get together with a girl whom you don't love too. And especially don't ask other girls out with the stupid flirty face ;) when you have, a fucking, girlfriend.
Not all girls will feel the way I do. If you can tell by now, I'm rather different from other girls. I still can't tell if it's a good or bad thing.
YES, So anyway, this blog post isn't turning out like how I expected it to be. I kind of forgot what I wanted to blog about so I shall just summarise everything.
1. Love and sex are separate matters.
2. Love>Sex. Sex is just a physical game whereas love is scary. Real scary.
3. Dont judge non-virgins.
4. Don't judge virgins either.
5. Never cheat on the one you love. You might lose everything.
6. Try not to fuck someone if you really love.
7. Fuck someone you don't love(if you want to).
8. Be open minded.
Okay actually I don't know what I'm talking about anymore HAHAHAH. Sleep deprived and I still have coursework tomorrow, so I count this post and giving my readers some food for thought? Minus the food of course.
Okay,
ABRUPT ENDING.
